You Can’t Make Other People Happy

You Can’t Make Other People Happy

How often do you see quotes online about how you can make other people happy? I understand that these are coming from a good place, and I’m all for you being kind to others. But you cannot make other people happy. How other people feel is determined by the thoughts in...
3 Little Words That Change Everything

3 Little Words That Change Everything

Thoughts are powerful. We often blame our circumstances for how we feel by saying things “this is so frustrating” or “he made me so mad.” The truth is that your emotions are caused by your thoughts, not the situations in your life. If you’re tired of feeling anxious,...
How to be Nicer to Yourself

How to be Nicer to Yourself

Would you talk to your best friend the way you talk to yourself? Most people would NEVER do that. And yet, we tell ourselves self-critical thoughts all day long. Most of us (especially my fellow Type A perfectionists) think that if we’re too nice to ourselves, we...
How to Stop Worrying About Money and Start Living

How to Stop Worrying About Money and Start Living

We’re in the midst of a pandemic right now, so it’s not surprising that many of us are worrying about money. COVID-19 has temporarily shut down businesses across the country and around the globe.  Many Americans have been laid off, furloughed, or had their...